Embracing Gay Marriage: Putting the Person Before Politics
Last week, President Obama’s proclamation of support for same-sex marriage has breathed new life into the discussion over gay rights in the United States. And while support for same-sex marriage amongst the general public has been increasing at an unprecedented rate, 43 percent of the American public still oppose allowing gays and lesbians to legally marry. However, many people in the opposition have one thing in common: they don’t know a gay person.
For many, supporting gay rights doesn’t come as a result of their own politics or ideology, but because of their own personal experiences – when one knows a person that identifies as LGBT, whether it be a family member, a friend, or even a co-worker, it’s harder for one to justify denying that individual the same rights that are afforded to any heterosexual individual. And Republicans aren’t an exception to this.
In 2009, former Vice President Dick Cheney reiterated his endorsement of gay marriage, citing his daughter Mary, who is a lesbian, as one of the reasons for his decision to support it. In Washington state, where the state legislature recently passed a bill that would legalize same-sex marriage, Republican State Senator Maureen Walsh who was once opposed to gay marriage, voted for the bill after her daughter came out to her as a lesbian. She described her decision to support same-sex marriage by saying:
In some selfish way I did think what an affront to my beautiful daughter, who deserves something everybody else has in this country. It’s selfishness, but it’s motivated by love. And I’d rather err on the side of love, wouldn’t you?
For many Republicans, supporting and even embracing gay marriage has nothing to do with their politics. It’s about the love and compassion they have for others, not what their party advocates. In this case, love conquers all, including politics.
Posted: May 17th, 2012 under From the Right, GOP Progress, In the News.




